Tuesday, January 29, 2019

Aphrodisian Fire Massage + Body Oil


Aphrodisian Fire Massage + Body Oil is made by Kate's Magik. This is an intention based oil to promote love and passion. This oil has a very sensual smell. Although it is a mix of several fragrances the ones that stand out for me are the sandalwood and rose. 

The oil came in a small box that was very well packed. The bottle that the oil comes in, is a nice thick glass bottle with a pump top. The pump is really convent for application. The labeling on the bottle is very attractive with the gold foiling. This oil would make an great gift or a little something nice for yourself. This product is also soy free, glutton free, and cruelty free. 



The oil its self is amazing. It really moisturizes your skin without leaving it greasy. Which is something I really liked. I didn't have to worry about it staining my lingerie or bedding, which is always a plus. It absorbed right into my skin without an annoying residue, leaving my skin soft with a lovely fragrance. 

My Guy is one of those that appreciates the entire package. He loves nothing more than when I put on some make up and do my hair with my lingerie. He also loves different smells on my skin, so needless to say Aphrodisian Fire was a new scent for him to enjoy. One thing I do need to point out even though it does have sandalwood in it the fragrance isn't overly masculine it's actually a perfect blending of feminine and masculine smells. This is truly a massage oil that would work for anyone. 


As I had stated earlier this is an intention based oil. That doesn't mean that it's going to force someone to do something they don't want to. Its not a love potion. What it means is its a special blend of oils and fragrances that appeal to your passion and desire. So it helps to intensify your exploration and activities. This oil is fantastic though I can't say enough about it. I highly recommend it to anyone that likes to add sensual massages to your romantic evening with your chosen partner. I assure you that you wont be disappointed.  


Disclaimer this is a sponsored post. I was provide the product for review in exchange for an honest review. 

Friday, January 25, 2019

Eden velvet G – classic g-spot vibrator Review

Eden velvet G – classic g-spot vibrator is a fantastic beginners vibe or if you are looking for a discrete travel vibe. This vibe is for you. I bought this vibe because I was looking for a small travel vibe, that didn't scream vibe. Although anytime I purchase anything sexy my guy gets very excited because we use our toys alone and together. I find it very sexually freeing to be able to not have to hide my toys or wants from him. I know that some it might be hard or embarrassing but its totally normal. Enjoy your desires and embrace them.

This vibe is five inches long with about three inches of insertable length. Its a little over three inches around. It has one speed so for a beginner it's not overwhelming. Its made out of PU coated plastic, which means you can use it with most lubes. Although with the size of it you might not even need to use lube. Which is up to you. This vibe is good for clitoris stimulation or G-Spot stimulation or a combination.



With the discrete look and size means its perfect to fit in your purse or gym bag. You never know when you need to relieve some stress. Its not a loud vibe so you would be able to use it with people in another room with out worry of people hearing. As someone that lives with family, even I am occasionally concerned about other people hearing whats going on. But Then again most of the time I really don't care. For being a relatively small vibe it is mighty. I was actually surprised by how strong it is. For being a cheaper vibe I expected it to it be a weaker vibe or not a good investment. This wasn't the case, I love this little guy. One problem that it does have is the way you turn it on and off. You just twist it but if you twist it to far it pops open. As long as your careful with it, its just fine! Even with a slight issue I would definitely recommend this.

Wednesday, January 23, 2019

Lets Talk About Lube

I've have a couple of toy reviews coming up, prior to doing that I thought that it might be better to discuss lubes. Having proper lubrication before any sexual activity is so important. Without proper lubrication it can cause a number of issues such as tearing, friction or general discomfort. Not to mention occasional bleeding.

Although there are many different types of lube it's important to use the right kind of lube especially when toys are involved. The three main types of lube are Water Based, Silicone Based, and Oil Based.

Water Based Lube is very effective for all activities. Its also very compatible with all sex toy materials. Water Based lubes work really well with condoms as well. Which lets face it because when it comes to sex you should always practice safe sex. Water Based is also very easy to clean, which makes it very beneficial. Personally it's my go to lube, even if you do end up using a bit more than you would the other ones.

Silicone Based Lube is hypoallergenic and great for sensitive skin. It also lasts a bit longer than the Water Based Lube. Unfortunately though Silicone Based isn't compatible with silicone toys. If you use it with them the surface of your sex toy will deteriorate at over time. It will destroy the look of your beautiful toys. You also wont be able to clean them as well so they wont be as sanitary as they need to be. However non silicone toys and other actives work very well with Silicone Based Lube.

Oil Based Lube is probably the longest lasting lube of the three. One application should do it. Unfortunately Oil Based Lube has been linked to more infections than the other types. Oil Based Lube is also more likely to stain your clothes, bed sheets or any other cloth it might coming in contact with. It can also be a pain in the ass to clean and not in a good way! Personally I find it best to just stay away from Oil Based Lube. Of course there are a lot of hybrid lubes out there as well as natural lubes. I like to stick to Water Based or Silicon Based Lubes they tend to be the most practical. I also suggesting staying way from novelty lubes they can mess up your vagina balance and cause unnecessary issues.

The amount of lube that you use depends on the activity. Vaginal sex will use less lube than anal sex will. You will always want to use more lube with anal sex because the anal doesn't lube itself. Not to mention its a smaller space so there would be more friction. You can either apply the lube to the toy or directly to your skin. I find it's easier to just apply it to the toy and reapply if needed. Remember there is nothing to be ashamed of when using lube. Use as much as you need, everyone is different so some woman will need more than others.

Monday, January 21, 2019


I feel as though an introduction is in order. It probably should have been my first post but I'm not always one to play by the rules. I feel with the way times are changing and how society regards sex, it's important to have view people from all areas of society sharing their experiences.  I'm not going to just have reviews but a mixed of articles, reviews, and other related topics that I feel are important.

Now a little bit about me. I'm in my early 40s. I have a grown son and 2 grand-kids. I'm in a committed relationship with a guy that is as open and adventurous as I am which is very freeing. I grew up in a time that female masturbation and sexual freedom made you a slut. This was something that I really struggled with when I was younger because I was concerned with how my peers viewed me. I struggled for many years trying to suppress a part of who I am to fit in with society standards. Which basically caused me to cut off all sexual contact for several years. It was almost like I was trying to punish myself because I was such a slut or at least that was what I was lead to believe at that time. It wasn't just because my female friends were so fidget and up tight but my poor choice in partners was also an issue. Sometimes people need to think before they speak. Even though I'm strait I say people because I'm not going to say its something strictly male but I feel that it something that can effect people in all forms of sexuality.

Some of the things that were making me self conscious were things I should have never been embarrassed or ashamed of. Such as my sex drive, how wet I get, or the fact that I wasn't interested in just missionary sex. Now I'm not shaming anyone who enjoys just missionary sex, but personally I like a bit more variety. In my case I like to change it up and it also depends on my mood. For example tonight I might want to be tied to the bed and ravished where as tomorrow I might want something more gentle and romantic. I'm hoping with this blog I'm going to be able to continue opening up sexually and trying new things.

Saturday, January 19, 2019

Woman's Plus Size Babydoll


So I don't know about the rest of you but when I buy lingerie it's something that I discuss with my partner unless its a surprise for him. If it's a surprise I know the type of lingerie he enjoys me wearing and what makes me feel sexy. This babydoll is actually one that we both picked out, honestly I was a bit concerned with my tits fitting. I'm a 40DD so I tend to have an issue with some lingerie. I was presently surprised with this. Its sexy as hell, plus those strips hold me in place at least for a little bit.

I've had some bad experiences with buying lingerie online with the way it fit or the material not being what it was described as. The lace is nice and soft just like the rest of it. I bought this babydoll on Amazon. The fabric feels great on. It also contains one of my tits which is a big plus for me. As far as washing it, I hand washed it and hung it to dry. I think you could also put it in a lingerie bag and wash it on gentle but I just prefer to hand wash it. There was one small issue that I had which was the panties that came with it didn't fit. I did expect this to happen because I need to buy a larger size for my tits. Its not that big of a deal though I have tons of black thongs.


Not only did this feel good on it makes me feel super sexy. I couldn't wait to try it on and show it to my guy. Unfortunately he was working so he didn't get to see it in person but he did get to see photos. He loves it, he thinks it looks as sexy as I feel when I wear it. Now fair warning if you decide to leave this on during sex it wont keep your tits contained. This should be expected with a night of hot sex though! With Valentine's Day just around the corner this is defiantly a sexy outfit for a night of some great sex!  



Thursday, January 17, 2019

Bewish Women Crossover Waist Body Chain Bikini Double Layered Choker Necklace


I want to start out by saying this is very delicate and lovely. However I'm actually packaging this back up to return. I thought this would be a fun piece to wear out on a date or for a bit of play time with my guy. Unfortunately it was one disappointment after another.


This is how I received it in the mail. Just like that in a padded envelope. It was a bit of a tangled mess. I was concerned that I was going to break it while untangling it. I still even with that mess I was still so in love with this! I wanted to wear it for a variety of wicked deeds! 


I was hoping to have a sexy photo showing you how awesome it is. Unfortunately I had two major issues with it. The first one being its very confusing. There wasn't any kind of directions or anything to help you figure out exactly how to put it on. I've tried it several different ways trying to get them to look the way it did on Amazon. The other major issue I had is no matter how I tried to put it on it never fit right. I fully except the fact that I'm a chubby girl but there's no reason I can't wear a sexy ass piece of jewelry. This is a very cute but unfortunately it's not make for anyone busty or chubby. Plus its confusing.

Wednesday, January 16, 2019

Charm Wear Stay-up fishnet stockings




I loved the feel of these stockings. For being in expensive stockings they had a really soft feel to them. I've bought others in the past that cost more but didn't feel half as nice, as these stockings. I'm a bit plus size and they fit great. I also didn't have any issues with the stocking staying up or in place. I've had trouble in the past with other brands rolling down. They stayed in place through all the activities of the evening. I did a lot of walking in them I was pleasantly surprised I didn't have any chaffing. 

They were easy to clean and care for. I had washed them and hung them up to air try. They fit just as well after I washed them as they did the first time I wore them. I will defiantly buy these again. They are super versatile, I can wear them out with a sexy dress or in the bedroom with sexy lingerie. They added a sexy look to a black dress for a company event. The real fun came later with these soft fishnets. I am defiantly going to buy these again. 

I also felt super sexy in them. My boyfriend loved them. He couldn't stop mentioning how much he enjoyed them.I paired them with a pair of super sexy open backed black panties under my dress. I should also mention that not only did they wear well they also worked for a bit of light bondage later. I like that they didn't get stretched out or weird like I've had happen with other stockings in the past. They were able to be used to tie me to the headboard with out any damage to the stockings. They also didn't leave any marks or rubs on my wrists. These fishnets are sexy and fun!

You can buy these Charm Wear Stay-Up Fishnets at EdenFantasy


Custom Leather Collar From Day Collars

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