Sunday, May 12, 2019

Custom Leather Collar From Day Collars

I want to just say that the photos do not do this collar justice at all! This collar is beautiful, I've never owned a collar as beautiful or comfortable. You might not be able to tell in the photos but it's black and purple with rhinestones.

As I mention this was a custom design for me. I was concerned that doing a custom might be a hard or difficult in some way. It was extremely easy and painless. We were able to go over everything from the colors I wanted to the width. I designed it based off a collar I was given many years ago by a friend that I had worn so much it was starting to fall apart.

I honestly didn't know what to expect but the leather that Day Collars use is buttery soft. I didn't have any issues with rubbing. I have to say that made me very happy, living in Florida. I love to buy very pretty collars because I do tend to wear them to concerts and other events as well as in the bedroom. The stitching is perfect. The purple threading against the black leather looks amazing. Its very well made, it will last a long time.

I would recommend Day Collars for all your collar needs!


Thursday, April 18, 2019

Paloqueth Rotating Rabbit Vibrator

The Paloqueth Rotating Rabbit Vibrator is the first vibe of this kind that I've used. I wasn't sure what to expect but I was excited to try it out. This vibe is rechargeable which I love. Its also silicone based which I'm also a fan of, since its much more body safe then jellies. As you can see its a light purple in color, which is my favorite color.

There is three buttons on the vibe. You have a power button, a button for the rabbit, and a button for the shaft. This vibe has seven patterns and three speeds. Their is so may different combinations to try and experiment with. According to the description there are twenty one combinations. Its also water proof so you can use it in the tub when your relaxing. 

I wasn't sure what to expect with this vibe but I was really exited to try it out. I didn't try it in the tub because I'm not a fan. But I did try it several time and every time it was amazing. I tried several different combinations. A couple I have to admit were a little to intense for me, causing me to peak way to soon. But I really like the combination of the rotating shaft and the rabbit ears. This vibe is also very quiet. So you don't have to worry about roommates or anyone else knowing what your up too. There's nothing worse then turning on a vibe for the first time only to discover its extremely loud. Personally I don't care if other people know what I'm doing but if they are super loud it just throws off my mood. 

This is a great low cost vibe that will defiantly bring you to climax. 

Thursday, April 4, 2019

Sweet Lace Halter Chemise

I purchased the Sweet Lace Halter Chamise from Elegant Moments from Adam and Eve. Normally a try to avoid halters because my bust size makes it pull on my neck but I took a chance with this one. I really like it even though it is a little shorter then I thought it would be. It also comes in a few different colors but I really tend to go towards black. I did almost buy the purple one and I still might.

Personally I think it looks great on. The fabric that its made out of is a stretchy lace so its not restricting, you also don't have to worry about ripping it if your trying to take it off in a rush. The fabric is also softer than I thought it would be which I like. I hate buying something only to find out that its stiff or itchy. I think the best part about this halter chamise is it makes me feel sexy, which is really why we buy lingerie in the first place. My guy however he doesn't care about the wrapper he just likes the naked part. But I still try to persuade him to enjoy the moment of the lingerie. He will get there.

I would defiantly would recommend this chamise. I love it. Its sexy and super comfortable.

Tuesday, April 2, 2019

Spicy Subscription Feburary Box

I'm sure your a little confused as to why I'm writing a review for the February Spicy Subscription Box in the beginning of April! No I didn't get that far behind that I couldn't keep up to do this in a timely manner but I've had nothing but issues with Spicy Subscription since I placed the order! I defiantly wouldn't ever recommend them to anyone.

When I first placed the order I didn't realized that my card wasn't charged, I got a notification about 2 weeks later saying the card that I used was declined. No big deal, I moved money over to that card so that I could charge it. Well when I went to log into my account it told me that I didn't have an account. I went ahead and built a new one so that I could order the box so that I could review it. I sent the cancellation notification later on so I wasn't charged for another month. I received an email telling me that it was taken care of. I later discovered that it hadn't been, not only did I get charged for the box I cancelled but I was also charged on the account that didn't exist! So I was charged twice. I contacted them and finally got that sorted out and my money refunded. I should also mention it takes at least 3 days for someone to contact you back if they do at all.

When I didn't receive my shipping information after the website stated all boxes were shipped, I contacted them again. Only to discover that they didn't send mine to the shipper. I finally received it sometime in the beginning of March. It wasn't boxed in the pink box that it shows on the website. It was just tossed into a brown box that way bigger than it needed to be. The box didn't have any kind of bubble wrap or anything to protect the items inside. The box was also crushed and busted open when I received it.

I once again contacted Spicy Subscriptions, I attached photos as well. Asking if this was everything that should have been included in the box since I didn't get anything telling me what should have been included in the box. I was told they were very sorry and a replacement box would be sent out. I was never told what was missing. When I still hadn't received another box in the mail after 2 weeks. I again contacted customer service to follow up. I was sent the original tracking information for the destroyed box. When I replied back to let them know I was supposed to have another one sent out, my email went unanswered. I really wanted to love this and do a great review but in the end the entire experience left a bad taste in my mouth. The customer service is terrible, and I feel like they don't care as long as they have your money.

I'm in no way faulting Calexotics!! They are fantastic. I've never had an issue with there products.

Wednesday, March 27, 2019

Javida Double Vibro Massager Review

The Javida Double Vibro Massager is amazing!! Not only is it visually stunning but it has two powerful motors in it. I love to deep purple coloring with the rose gold. 

This massager is silicone with a wand at one end and the other can be used for penetration. Your able to adjust the speeds and patterns in the wand and the base separate with different control buttons. Its also rechargeable so your not going to kill the environment burning though batteries. Its also waterproof for the folks that like to enjoy a bit of self care in the bath. The size is perfect as well so its very easy to handle, making it easy to control and guide as you want. 

My favorite thing about this massager is I don't have to change out my vibe. I am able to use the wand and enjoy some G-Spot penetration with the same equipment. This is something that I really enjoyed it gives me so many options in one massager. With having just broken up with the guy I was dating I found this very enjoyable. As I've mentioned before I don't like using the top speed or patterns to much. I find the higher speeds tend to be a bit to much ,and make me cum way faster than I want to but the lower two settings on this one is perfect for me.  

Wednesday, March 20, 2019

Removing Toxicity From Your Life

Although most of the posts on this blog are going to be reviews, occasionally I'm going to post other posts. This is going to be one of them, it's going to be a bit of a personal nature. As most of you know from reading my posts I was involved in a relationship when I started this blog. He was very supportive of this new venture and very willing to assist with anything I needed for it. I appreciated the support. I felt like I had finally found someone that I could have a lasting relationship with that wasn't going to slut shame me or make me feel like I was less of a person.

We started dating back in August, the relationship lasted just over six months. There was a lot of red flags leading up to the break up that I really kept ignoring. I kept pushing them down because I have not had a great dating history and I was determined to make this work. Plus I never really recovered from having my heart shattered about 5 years ago.  So needless to say I was fine with ignoring the red flags and trying to force this to work. As with all toxic relationships in the beginning it was all sunshine and lollipops but as time went on it became less of a relationship and more of me giving more than I should be without getting what I really needed in return.

When the relationship first started he was so clingy it was almost annoying but I was like you know what he really seems to like me so I will give him a pass. As time went on though he started to with draw from me. Not a little but days would go on until I started to think that he was ghosting me then he would pop up like nothing was wrong. I spoke to him several times about how important it is to keep in contact. We lived a good distance from each other close to two hours with traffic. So in reality it would be very easy for him to actually have 2 lives. He was very much always talking about our future together including getting married. It was very easy to get swept up in the fantasy of it because he sounded so sure how life was going to be with his flowery words. About a two months before I broke up with him, I started to feel like something wasn't right deep in my core but I was trying so hard to ignore it. As I think about it now I feel a bit pathetic that I tried to cling to what I came to realize was a toxic relationship. About a month before the break up I received a random text message from the guy that shattered my heart. We had been good friends prior to dating and he didn't fully understand what had gone wrong so quickly and why we had completely stopped communicating. He needed answers and there were answers that I needed as well. To be very clear I was very upfront about being in a relationship, I was not going to ruin it because lets be honest I'm not getting any younger.

He in no way had to do with my decision to end my relationship. Although in a way talking to him made me start to notice things I had been ignoring. One example was I was in a minor auto accident about 2 weeks before the break up. I told my boyfriend about it and his response was well at least you only need a tire and a rim. He never asked if I was ok nor was he concerned about my well being, he was more concerned with damage to my car. My ex however didn't want to hear about damage to my car he wanted to know if I was ok. This was a wake up call for me. How in the hell could my ex care more about my current boyfriend who swore he loved me and wanted to marry me? I started making a list of everything that was bothering me. One thing that stood out to me was that he hadn't made any time for me in about 2 months. That was the first major issue then as I started to think of other things that made me start to think that maybe him and his baby momma weren't actually broke up. There were a lot of things such as I never met any of his friends or family, he wouldn't take photos together, he said he didn't have social media accounts but I found some. The list goes on and on.

When I tried to question him about my concerns he basically tried to turn it around on me that I was crazy. He always had what sounded like a valid reason but it was really a transparent reason when you started to pick it apart. He tried to take control of the conversation. Also wanted to know who would make me think things like this? He couldn't believe that I could see through his lies on my own. There had to be someone that was jealous of our love as he put it. He also felt that I didn't need anyone but him. He would have preferred me to cut all ties with friends and family so that I only had him. Which that in itself should have been enough to make me run for the hills if I had been thinking clearly. In the time since I broke up with him he has continued to text me and call me. He is insistent that we belong together. The tone of the messages go from him sending a normal text to a hostel to begging and pleading. I refuse to respond even to say leave me alone because I in no way want to give him any kind of encouragement. It took me a minute to remember that I am a strong woman who can take care of herself. I don't have to have a man in my life to feel complete but its nice to have one around.

There's a lot more to this that I could go into but I'm going to keep it vague, because I'm not trying to name names or point fingers. My main reason for this post is that I hope other people in the same position find the strength to find a way out of a toxic situation. It takes a toll on your not just mentally but also physically. I've noticed that my migraines haven't been as often since and my depression has eased up on me. Remember there are always people in your life willing to help you, even if you think you are completely alone your normally not. Its better to be single then to stay in a relationship that effects your health and is sucking the life out of you!! Your stronger than you think! You are loved!! You are important!! Never forget that!!!

Monday, March 18, 2019

So Divine ‘Whole Lotta Love’ 7 Function Bullet Vibrator Review

So Divine "Whole Lotta Love" Bullet is really pretty, it's flat black and rose gold. Its made of body safe materials. Its water proof and comes with 7 settings. Personally I'm not a huge fan of patterns but the first 3 settings are different speeds.

This bullet is great for someone that is looking for a first time vibe or for one that isn't as intense as some of the larger vibes. Its also very discreet and fits perfectly in your purse. I find its perfect to use for a bit of foreplay. Either with your other half or just as a warm up to using one of your stronger vibes. I find that if you start out with the stronger ones even on the low settings it tends to make me cum a little to quickly. I also rotate my toys between vibes and dildos so that I don't end up with nerve damage.

Over all this is a great little bullet. Its also very cost efficient so your not going to spend a fortune on it.

Disclaimer This Bullet was provided in exchange for an honest review. 

Custom Leather Collar From Day Collars

I want to just say that the photos do not do this collar justice at all! This collar is beautiful, I've never owned a collar as beaut...